Imbecilic Mourning for the Late

Frankly speaking, I think people who mourn for other's death are blind idiots. You can disagree with me in this statement but don’t look at me differently after reading this. Everyone got their own perspective on things – just accept this fact!

First of all, life goes on. I think Carrie Underwood's Wheel of the World song is best to describe this situation. I will show you the method that I use when I tried psychoanalyzing William Blake (but it turned out to be a sex manual in the end looking at the lecturer's comment -_-"). This is not a psychoanalysis but I’m trying to explain the words used in the lyrics :)

Love goes out, out like a light.

Out like a flame and you can’t find it anymore.

Just when you think it’s lost in the rain, it comes back knockin' at your door.

This shows that love (as in your loved ones) can leave you anytime. Even worse, they can also leave you permanently (pass away). As you cannot accept their departure, it will haunt you (as in you mourn over them for a very long time and think negative thoughts).

God put us here on this carnival ride.
We close our eyes, never knowing where it'll take us next.
Babies are born, and at the same time, someone's taking their last breath.

We are all being born in this world with no power or control over the course of nature. If we just ignore the people in this world, we will not expect what to happen next to them and how it may affect us. People come and go.

It’s the wheel of the world.
It’s the wheel of the world turning around.
In the blink of an eye, it can change your life.
And it never even slows down.

It is the course of nature that people come and go. At a split of second, it can affect your life (you lost someone forever in your life). This course of nature can never be stopped.

It can open your heart, it can break you apart.
And it never even slows down.

It’s the wheel of the world turning around.

The lost of someone precious to you can open your eyes (to cherish the people that you love when you’re still alive) and it can also affect you severely (to think negative thoughts like not appreciating him/her when they are still alive). However, it’s all too late, as the course of nature is unstoppable.

Alright back to the point! Why I think people who mourn for other’s death are blind idiots? Their mourning shows the sense of regret in them. This sense of regret is duly to their ignorance over the late person. For instance, when the late person is still alive, they did not appreciate him/her (as in on what he/she did for you). And only after his death that they realized how important that person is to them. This is ironic! I think that people who appreciate and cherish someone plus make the best out of their lives will not feel a sense of regret towards the person’s lost. What I’m trying to say here is that if that person lived happily every minute of his/her life as you have always cherish him/her, you will never regret for his/her loss as you will think that the person has lived enough as a person in this world.

It’s complicated and it’s hard for me to explain.. I might end up twisting this into a wrong statement so I will stop here. Hope you get my point. It is blind for a person not to cherish his/her loved ones when they are still close to them. They will be an idiot if they only managed to realize this after they lost their loved ones. And that is ladies and gentlemen for an imbecile who mourns for someone’s death.

However, sadness is another thing. When this happens, you will only feel shocked and down for a moment and this will not badly effect you. You accept his/her death and continue to move on (that’s what life is.. it’s the Wheel of the World turning around!). I hope you are not one of those blind people who take life for granted.. In conclusion, live life happily and consciously!! Cherish and appreciate your loved ones (friends and family) at all times!! Regret now, don’t regret later.. peace out!